Thursday, July 3, 2014

FEAR OF CHANGE

She keeps things balanced in my life and around me. No one has to remind her that its time for a new season, the sun must set and the moon must come out. She has been told once “mother nature” long time ago how to act and align things in balance.

I had a very long argument with a friend Joseph N Makola about nature systems being out of balance. Well, that’s what he believes but I insisted that nature still has its own way of doing things; what do I mean by that in simplicity “What goes around still comes around”. The sea still runs its own powerful filtering system without the help of any man, the birds are still migrating to greener pastures and the list goes on but that is a topic for another day.

Fear
FEAR OF CHANGE: This is a part of my life where I'm going through a serious transitions. By default change is taking place, I can choose not to adapt like most people or maybe ride along. 


Most of us have fear of change and we dont realize it, a simple lazy example "After upgrading to a new phone, one will still prefare to use the old one not because of its content but because we don't wanna let go) every-time you have to change your environment or the way you used to do things you complain. For what?

How do you expect yourself to be progressive in life if you refuse to alter your norms. Same looks/attire for the past 7 years, same circle of people, same house that belonged to your late great grandmother – come on now CHANGE AND LIVE A LITTLE.


I thought I will never own ALL STARS (sneakers), red pants or think about marriage any-time soon but all that had to changed because I realized what fear can bring into my life. Clearly fear has a place in our lives, but I wasn’t about to let it control me. No way would I allow it to dictate how I chose to live. Not a chance.



F.E.A.R. = False Evidence Appearing Real.
F.E.A.R. is an illusion.

No one never asked to experience fear or being confronted by the darkest of fears but overcoming fear enabled us to learn, grow, and be even more mortal. Feeling fear is human, but I assure you conquering it will make you feel empowered, courageous, and proud.

So, the formula for conquering F.E.A.R. is simple:

Try + Learn + Adapt + Try = Success.


HAVE A FEARFUL LIFE.

4 comments:

africadrive said...

Good Move Mchana,
The Only way to Deal with any type of Fear is to Face it.

Fear can destroy fortunes. Fear can destroy relationships. Fear, if left unchecked, can destroy our lives. Fear is one of the many enemies lurking inside us. by Jim Rohn

Go Red, Go Sneakers. Inspired Morena change is needed

Unknown said...

hahahaha, Go red, God snearks - Thanx man

Ama said...

Fear destroys most of the people because it leads them to failing to try and if you don't try you have a zero percent chance of succeeding in whatever you are dreaming of. Change is good, it brings about development and development brings about change. There is no one without the other. Once you start practicing one you are certain of the other.

Great blog mokgotse

Ama said...

Fear destroys many, it hinders us from succeeding because it makes us fail to try things and if we don't try things out we don't succeed much. Change is good, it brings about development and development brings about change. You can't do one and lack the other.