FEAR OF CHANGE

She keeps things balanced in my life and around me. No one has to remind her that its time for a new season, the sun must set and the moon must come out. She has been told once “mother nature” long time ago how to act and align things in balance.

I had a very long argument with a friend Joseph N Makola about nature systems being out of balance. Well, that’s what he believes but I insisted that nature still has its own way of doing things; what do I mean by that in simplicity “What goes around still comes around”. The sea still runs its own powerful filtering system without the help of any man, the birds are still migrating to greener pastures and the list goes on but that is a topic for another day.

Fear

FEAR OF CHANGE: This is a part of my life where I'm going through a serious transitions. By default change is taking place, I can choose not to adapt like most people or maybe ride along. 

Most of us have fear of change and we dont realize it, a simple lazy example "After upgrading to a new phone, one will still prefare to use the old one not because of its content but because we don't wanna let go) every-time you have to change your environment or the way you used to do things you complain. For what?

How do you expect yourself to be progressive in life if you refuse to alter your norms. Same looks/attire for the past 7 years, same circle of people, same house that belonged to your late great grandmother – come on now CHANGE AND LIVE A LITTLE.

I thought I will never own ALL STARS (sneakers), red pants or think about marriage any-time soon but all that had to changed because I realized what fear can bring into my life. Clearly fear has a place in our lives, but I wasn’t about to let it control me. No way would I allow it to dictate how I chose to live. Not a chance.

F.E.A.R. = False Evidence Appearing Real.

F.E.A.R. is an illusion.

No one never asked to experience fear or being confronted by the darkest of fears but overcoming fear enabled us to learn, grow, and be even more mortal. Feeling fear is human, but I assure you conquering it will make you feel empowered, courageous, and proud.

So, the formula for conquering F.E.A.R. is simple:

Try + Learn + Adapt + Try = Success.

HAVE A FEARFUL LIFE.